Chick-Fil-A, Gay Marriage & Tolerance in America

Posted: July 30, 2012 in Uncategorized


Much has been said lately regarding the comments made by Dan Cathy, CEO of Chick-Fil-A, in regards to gay marriage. In a recent interview, Cathy expressed his personal support for traditional marriage, which is between a man and a woman, and was suddenly caught in a firestorm of opposition and over-sensitive individuals who cried foul play. Chick-Fil-A, who is known for being a Christian-based company who closes on Sundays so that employees and customer can attend the church of their choice, should not surprise many when they take a stand on the side of traditional marriage. Cathy invoked his thoughts regarding marriage with this: “We are very much supportive of the family—the biblical definition of the family unit. We are a family-owned business, a family-led business, and we are married to our first wives. We give God thanks for that…We know that it might not popular with everyone, but thank the Lord, we live in a country where we can share our values and operate on biblical principles.”

            Cathy and Chick-Fil-A was instantly made a target from far left liberals on this controversial issue. “How backward and ignorant … how sad,” CNN reader Joe Brown said. “No more Chick-fil-A for me. I am not in the stone-casting business as a Christian.” “There is no place for this type of hate in our great City of Brotherly and Sisterly Affection,” said James Kenney, City Councilman in Philadelphia. Thomas Menino, the Democrat mayor of Boston, expressed his discontent with Chick-Fil-A’s position. “I don’t want an individual who will continue to advocate against people’s rights. That’s who I am and that’s what Boston’s all about,” he said.

For what it’s worth, I am a big fan of Chick-Fil-A. Life just doesn’t quite feel complete without a good chicken sandwich, waffle fries dipped in barbeque sauce, and a large sweet tea that never fails to quench the thirst.

            Sadly, many liberals are missing a vital point here. Being against gay marriage does not insinuate that one is anti-gay. For the record, I am personally against same-sex marriage. It does not coincide with my belief that God made man for the woman and woman for the man. I view marriage as a holy and sacred union between God, man and woman.  This is my moral conviction and I will always abide by this belief. With that said, I am not against homosexuals. In consistence with my faith in God, I believe in showing love towards everybody without discrimination.

Sadly in today’s society, standing on principle is being translated into being intolerant. The liberal logic of the left is the belief that your religious convictions are outdated, irrelevant and are an expression of cynicism and hatred. It is the secular and mainstream perception in this socio-cultural paradigm shift in society that is recommending Christians turn a blind eye and deaf ear to their God-forgiven principles in order to accommodate what is deemed socially acceptable.

            I strongly salute Chick-Fil-A and many other faith-driven individuals are stand for traditional marriage and also withhold discrimination from those who believe differently from them. The last time I checked, I don’t recall Chick-Fil-A expressing their desire for gays not to eat at their locations or to seek employment with them. The assault on their religious belief is beyond asinine and absurd.

            The moment we become tolerant for the sake of being culturally relevant and forsake our moral principles, we lose not only our influence, but our God-given identity. I refuse to be a token of tolerance if it insists on me betraying my principles for temporary satisfaction or popularity.

            Ironically, many of the folks that preach tolerance neglect to practice that very principle. The following is an excerpt from a statement that was posted on my Facebook from a liberal named Khayree Billingslea who decided to share with me his perception of me:

“You are a sickening presence in my newsfeed. When I reflect on the strange permutations of mankind that manifest themselves in the world and have the audacity to speak, I am confronted with thoughts of you as the most glaring example of that.”

What is my response to Khayree’s insulting and provocative remark? I think I’ll respond with a quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr: “ I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to care.”

            Tolerance is the ability to love and to remain grounded in one’s conviction and belief. This has been and will continue to be my stance.

  1. Rebekah says:

    I happened upon you in Twitterverse – not sure how. But I love your tweets and now this article. I’m hoping you’ll run for president some day. You seem to be such a smart young man. God bless and eat more chicken.

  2. Daniel says:

    You’ve been rather selective in your use of quotes from Mr. Cathy. There’s more to add fuel to the fire of his making. This liberal wouldn’t call any of it hate speech. It’s America, say what’s on your mind Mr. Cathy! Now when he puts his money where his mouth is, that can anger some when he’s donated MILLIONS to groups that promote hate.

  3. Maria says:

    Some of my friends on Facebook posted this article and having heard about the situation with Chik-fil-A but not knowing the details, I decided to take a look. I must say I’m glad I did. I loved Chik-fil-A before this happened and now I love it even more. I am an Apostolic and I am against same sex marriage. I follow what it says in the Bible and the Bible states, very clearly, that marriage is to be between a man and a woman. That said, I don’t discriminate against gays. I never have. However, I don’t and never will agree with their life choices. It’s against my religion, simple as that. In the beginning was Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. I enjoyed reading this article and I want to thank the author and reiterate Rebekah, God bless and eat more chicken!

  4. maddeacon says:

    Great piece. Tolerance is ‘I disagree with your opinion but support your right to say it’. Tolerance on the left is ‘if you don’t embrace/endorse what I do, you are a bigot’. I refuse to allow them to frame the argument that way. You did a great job expressing that.

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